I'm trying to have a plan this summer. Not so big as two summers ago where everything was very themed and planned. But if I don't have some kind of plan, we are going to spend too much time... wasting time.
So here's my plan which is based off of
this really.
Everyday they have chores. They get a ticket (that can be used to play 20 minutes of video games and other things), and a small treat for finishing. if they do their chores every day for two weeks they get allowance. (do you think I'm bribing them enough for doing their work? Nah... me either ;)) Chores are typically; clean room, get dressed, brush teeth, practice piano, read 20 minutes, take out trash etc. and then there is an extra credit where they do something I come up with. After that:
Monday is piano lesson day. Roman is kind of a natural at the piano and I've been just HORRIBLE at disciplining myself and teaching him. Marisa wants to learn too. So, since Mondays seem to be my most productive days, this is when we're doing it. So far so good. We haven't skipped a lesson yet and they practice daily as part of their chores. Roman is zooming through his lesson book and Marisa is catching on too. I have to remind myself that if I had someone else teach them it would be $30-$40 a month each so essentially, I'm saving our family $60 -$80 a month by sucking it up and teaching them... at least until they pass my realm of knowledge. Then I will pay someone to un-do all the damage I've done ;)
Monday is also cooking day. I hate having helpers in the kitchen. But... I don't want my kids to be clueless so this is the day where I plan on really letting the kids help me make something. We made bread the first week. The kids thought it was fun but wouldn't really eat it. Oh well, flour is cheap. The next week was cookies but we ran out of time. I don't know how piano lessons, a trip to my work and dentist appointments ate up the entire day... but it did.
Tuesday is library day. This takes a surprisingly large amount of time. The kids like the story time and we get a new stack of books.
Wednesday is exercise day. Marisa has Ballet for 1.5 hours so that counts for her, but I try to get the boys out and make them work their muscles. We've gone running twice. Well, I run, Roman rides his bike and Ezra gets to ride... not exactly exercise, the youngest gets away with so much. I took them to the park for some soccer drills once. Then they played on the playground while I ran laps. Roman ran a lap with me. I need some more fun ideas, but I'm really thinking that we will just do soccer mostly since that's the next sport coming up.
I was going to make Wednesday friend day... but... friends can play when friends can play. And I'm really wanting my kids to get along together so honestly, I'm not focused on getting them with friends much. They play with the neighbor kids a lot because it is convenient and can last 10 minutes or hours and it doesn't really matter. The first week of summer was rough. Marisa and Ezra get along great... mostly because Marisa does whatever Ezra wants her to. But Roman is older, wiser and likes being in charge and it was like throwing a wrench in a well oiled machine.
Thursday is craft/sewing day. I'm trying to get excited about teaching Marisa how to sew. It's hard. I get impatient quickly but she did sew her baby doll a pillow and a blanket. I tend to want to skip the basics like threading a machine or sewing simple seams. She tends to sew very crooked. HA!
Then I want to make sure the boys get to make something fun too. We made a fathers day card last week, then I let the kids paint whatever they wanted after that. Today was supposed to be sidewalk paint. I'm paranoid of it staining our sidewalks. I don't want that. Maybe we'll just make the cookies we didn't make on Monday.
Friday is field trip day. Not that we don't go tons of places other days, but this day I will try to throw in a fun but hopefully cheap trip. Swimming, splash pad, dollar movie, hiking, feed the ducks etc.
My hope is that we have a fun, relaxed summer without our brains going to mush.
Some goals for the summer are teaching Ezra to read (we're off to a great start), maybe teaching Marisa to ride a bike, piano lessons weekly, not too much T.V. and more importantly not too much video games, have fun as a family and avoid sewing during the day too much which is hard because summer months mean swimming suits, and swimming suits have to be cut out at the store. So.... the kids have to come and try to be good while I try to cut out as many swimming suits as I can (not many, it turns out) before they go nuts and we have to leave. I should just take the summer off, but I like sewing the suits, it gives me a reason to wake up before the kids in the morning and the tiny little paychecks help fund our little summer adventures.
Ezra doing his reading lesson. He loves them! Why oh why can't he go to Kindergarten in the fall? WHY??? OK, I know why and I'm hoping it's a good thing but the kid is just too smart for his own good.
What are your summer plans? Scheduled or Complete free time? Vacations?